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You can naturally find the most fundamental trust/loyalty here
It has the ultimate relationship- by blood
The members are safely very close to each other. Sister and brother don't naturally sleep together.
Having parents gives a revelation of how marriage might and should be like.
Families also feature a fundamental government system composing a natural president and vice president/manager of the house, and the people.
1) the agreement between 2 people to stand together even in toughest times to love each other and
2) to share responsibility of raising the children for a lifetime.
3) to have the blessing of God.
4) to designate these two people separated from the single persons pool, and that their marriage shouldn't be interfered with among other persons.
1) since sex requires ONLY 2 partners and is ultimately satisfying to both, it creates an ultimate bond between the two. Having sex with many partners reduces this bond. It's no longer "you are the special person I’ve chosen" but "you're one of them I did it with". Also sex requires the two to be naked, exposing every inch of their bodies to each other. The fact that 2 people undress themselves in front of each other willingly shows their oneness, hence why they need marriage. Doing this without marriage becomes extremely questionable, since they are not even doing something under a strict contract. It’s like two people who do risky business without an explicit strict contract to not share secrets outside of the union. It’s risky behavior and it’s a good reason God prohibits it.
2) After the sex, conceiving a child creates another strong bond. The genetics from both partners come together to form a new one, but retaining the characteristics of the parent genes. It isn’t any other genetics that are added, no outside stranger, hence why marriage should be between 2 people only. Since the child is their very own flesh, they are utterly most responsible to care for it, which we naturally see. A non-drugged, parent willingly repeatedly sacrifice their selves for their children. A mother getting a C-section extenuates this self-sacrifice love for her children because they don’t feel both the incredible pain and joy a mother gets in birth. Here, the mother sleeps peacefully, then wakes up to a strange baby and asks “is that mine?” A father who doesn’t care about his children is a fool since his legacy is lost.
1) the first bond is weakened in sex with the first partner, esp since you'd have to break up that strong bond in order to get with another woman/man. Also, since the first bond died out so quickly, it's less likely to be any stronger.
2) having sex before an agreement shows how self-controless a person is. This adds up.
Every person has bad feelings of adultery from the start, esp woman. In boy/girl friend relationships, if the either finds out that his/her partner had sex with another person, they’d naturally break up even though they were not married. Why? Because they had deep personal feelings for each other.
We all know how adultery destroys marriages, and bad marriage creates bad family units, and bad family units contribute to a bad society.
Marriage and virginity are necessary for a healthy family unit that is ultimately of society.